
Fellas, you're not going to believe this story sent by Brad from FOX News:
PATRICK, Nev. — An Oregon rugby player remains in jail Tuesday after being arrested on charges he left his 2-year-old daughter in a vehicle in the parking lot of a Nevada brothel on a 95-degree day.Lucien Hoffman, of Bend, Ore., is being held in the Storey County Detention Center in lieu of $40,000 bail on charges of child neglect.
Police arrested Hoffman early Sunday night at the World Famous Mustang Ranch brothel in Sparks, Nev., after a security guard found the child crying inside the car, according to Storey County Sheriff's Det./Sgt. Kenneth Quirk.
Hoffman, a wing for Bend Rugby who goes by the nicknames Luke and "Torpedo," had been attending a pool party and barbecue at the brothel, a co-sponsor of a Labor Day weekend rugby tournament in Reno organized by the Reno Zephyrs Rugby Club.
Fellas, I know of a few of you probably started cussing when you read that. Here's the rest of this pathetic story.
Here's what I don't understand: there are some really great guys I know that aren't able to have kids for various reasons but guys like this get to have kids and do this is kind of ridiculous @#$%! with them. This has always been a profound mystery to me.
Thoughts, gentlemen?
Yet another story that demonstrates why heterosexuals should not be allowed to have children!
Posted by: Jeb at September 5, 2007 09:20 AMThe other interesting thing I thought about this was the coach's reaction: "He's a good guy who made a bad decision." Always the carte blanc cop-out.... at what point does someone become a "bad person?"
And yes, I'm still leaning towards foul language as a reaction to reading this load of horse... nevermind.
Posted by: Brad at September 5, 2007 09:32 AMWhat gets me even more is what his buddy said:
"We know Luke to be a good father," he said. "He's not a neglectful person or an irresponsible parent. It's unfortunate that he made the decision that he did to put here in the car, but I'm sure the decision wasn't arrived at in a neglectful manner or that he was intentionally being neglectful."
This kind of thing is becoming more and more common, and on some levels is as disturbing, if not more so, than the neglect itself. It was bad enough when people used to say "He was a good kid" after talking about someone who just committed some awful crime, but you could always chalk that up to maybe saying that he used to be a good kid and this was a real shock. But now, more and more often, you have friends and supporters making public statements that absolutely fly in the face of the objective reality in front of them, and do it in such an articulate fashion that you have to think this is more than a defense mechanism -- it's an actual belief that you can beat up an old lady while being "a good kid," or you can dangerously neglect your child without having done or thought anything "neglectful."
Half the story is that guys like this are jerks and shouldn't be in charge of taking care of children. The other half is that more and more of the world is going absolutely morally insane, and it gets scarier by the day.
Posted by: pentamom at September 5, 2007 09:37 AMBrad said, "Always the carte blanc cop-out.... at what point does someone become a "bad person?"
Great point.
Posted by: Anthony at September 5, 2007 09:47 AMSin knows no bounds.
Posted by: stelmodad at September 5, 2007 10:01 AMI'm torn between wishing we punished people like Singapore does, and hoping that his girlfriend is related to Lorena Bobbitt somehow.
Posted by: Robert Perry at September 5, 2007 11:07 AM"Dad" is too good a word for this man.
Posted by: dramaturge at September 5, 2007 01:50 PMWhat is it about the word neglect that they don't understand?!? I experienced a few times of neglect when I was little...doesn't leave good memories.
Posted by: t.smith at September 5, 2007 03:41 PMAs much as I hate to do it, I must quote Keanu Reeves from the movie Parenthood. “You know....you need a license to buy a dog, to drive a car -- hell, you even need a license to catch a fish. But they'll let any butt-reaming *#%^&)@! be a father."
Posted by: Darden Caylor at September 5, 2007 04:45 PMMy apologies if my last post was too (how shall I say it) "edgy." I've had to deal with people like this in the past and it really just frustrates me.
Posted by: d at September 5, 2007 05:32 PM